It's hard to believe that I've actually been home from England for a week now (or more accurately, almost a week, since at this time last week I was finishing up my 10-hour flight from London to Denver and getting ready to catch the second leg from Denver to Indy). Getting reaclimated to American culture has been somewhat of an adjustment, as it is any time you spend multiple weeks in another country (even another Western country). I've readjusted to driving on the "right" side of the road, though I did almost get picked off one time by looking the wrong way as I stepped off the curb. :)
As I mentioned last week, I spent my last hours in Oxford attempting to maximize the waning time I had there. So, the Sunday night before, I sat down and wrote out my final To Do and See list. And I just about completed it.
Eat breakfast at the St. Giles Cafe? Check. Take a stroll along Addison's Walk (where C.S. Lewis walked late one evening with J.R.R. Tolkien and Hugo Dyson, which was very instrumental in his embracing the Christian faith)? Check. Visit the Oxford Museum of Natural History (where Darwin's bulldog, Thomas Huxley and Samuel Wilberforce had their famous debate in 1860, and where, by the way, Dr. John Lennox will be debating Richard Dawkins on October 21 of this year)? Check.
Then it was off to Blackwell's bookstore for one final writing session and self-restrained shopping spree. (Fortunately, Jean hasn't gotten that last credit card statement yet. :) Let's see, what's next? Grab some final gifts for the boys? Check. Stock up on enough English tea to last until my 40th birthday? Check. Walking into a movie set? Check.
That's right, friends, before I even realized it, I walked into the set of a movie that was filming on Broad Street. (I think it was named, "The Grapevine", or something like that.) And then later in the day, I saw them filming on Cornmarket Street. At first, I decided to watch the action from afar, not ever having actually been on a movie set before. But, then as I saw the three actors start making their way up a sidestreet for one of the movie shots, I thought, "Forget this, I'm not going to pass up my 15 minutes of fame." So I decided to strategically wander into the background of the scene. My 15 minutes of fame proved to be about .15 minutes of fame (the time it took to cover the span of the camera lens), but I'm well on my way to stardom. So, if years from now you find yourself watching a British film with a name that is some variation of "Grapevine" be looking for the scene with the wandering man in the background whose substantial girth is attributed to eating too many bangers and mash. I'm not that guy. Yours Truly is the one walking in his shadow trying to appear svelte by comparison. (And remember, Ben Affleck didn't win an Oscar on his first try...)
I rounded out the Oxford experience with one final meal at C.S. Lewis' old haunt, The Eagle and the Child, where I had become something of regular over the previous 2 months. It was a fitting end to an incredibly memorable experience.
And so now I find myself at home back here in the States basking in the boys and rekindling my deep love for Jean from our many weeks apart. You never know how much you love your wife and family until you've spent months away from them. Life is busy readjusting to the family dynamics (all while continuing to track down my next whistlestop on the journey of employment). But I'm a very happy man indeed! 