As I was going back through some of our TDD archives I realized that it has been about a year and a half since my last "Conversations with a Coffee Cup". (Has it been that long? You may recall that this particular TDD category centers around what I would say, if given the opportunity, to the various authors who have had their comments published on the side of Starbucks coffee cups.). That extended amount of time is not because I've stopped fueling my caffeinated addiction at Starbucks. It has more to do with the fact that I've basically been getting the same three cups for the last year or so, none of which warranted "conversation" from me. This latest cup hits closer to home than we may like, however. In Starbuck's "The Way I See It #51", author and radio talk show host, Michael Medved, writes,
Americans spend an average of 29 hours a week watching television - which means in a typical life span we devote 13 uninterrupted years to our TV sets! The biggest problem with mass media isn't low quality - it's high quantity. Cutting down just an hour a day would provide extra years of life - for music and family, exercise and reading, conversation and coffee.
Though I hate to admit it, I'll be the first to acknowledge that I love television. And had I been keeping statistics over the course of my adult life, I have spent countless hours basking in the soft blue glow of my special friend. (We weren't allowed to watch TV when I grew up, with one exception--my dad did make rare allowances for I.U. basketball games. Priorities, right? :) What have I missed in the interim? As someone once said, "I could have become a medical doctor, but there were too many good shows on television." :)
As I've said to audiences before, television in itself is not necessarily a bad thing--that is, unless it keeps up from engaging in better things. Even now, I've been putting off this post. And then I was challenged by the example of my good friend, George Hiller. On my recent trip to Atlanta, I noticed that one of George's resolutions for the year is to read 50 books. It seemed incredible to me (even as an avid reader) to think that anyone could accomplish such an audacious goal. But when I asked him about it, he said he had stopped watching television and was dedicating 2 hours a night to pursuing his reading goal. He is on track to achieve his resolution. Incredible and commendable!
In light of the pervasive influence of television in our lives, I am bringing you a challenge. Are you willing to go for a period of time without watching any television? Are you able to do it?
I understand that even suggesting something like this may be a bit difficult to consider. In fact, the last time I did this little experiment when I was pastoring at the church, I actually had a lady come up to me and candidly admit, "There is no way I can do that." But I can attest, as someone who has a love affair with television, that it is possible. (The last time I experimented with a television sabbatical, Jean and I kept it open-ended. Amazingly, we ended up without a TV for over 14 months!)
Here's my proposal for your consideration: I want to challenge all of us in the TDD community to go for only one week without watching any television, beginning Monday, March 9th through Sunday, March 15th. (To ease the impact of this experiment, we've realistically accounted for the upcoming March Madness :). The purpose of this experiment is to have you and your family use the time you would have spent watching TV doing other activities personally, and as a family. Less TV = more reading, more games, more time outside, more exercise, more family time, etc. I would contend that you will find the experiment to be surprisingly beneficial. (In fact, the last time I proposed this at the church, I heard back from a family whose son initially said good-naturedly, "I hate Pastor John!". But by the end of the week, he began to realize what a great experience it had turned out to be.)
Jean and I have talked about it and are planning to engage in this weeklong experiment. I hope you'll be willing to join us and see what positive effects happen in your own life and schedule. Take this as an opportunity to get re-calibrated. You won't regret it, I guarantee it. (We'll plan to debrief the week of March 16th to hear from those of you who choose to participate.) Are you ready for the challenge? Who's in?